Vows & Promises

Since high school, friends and family members have asked me to officiate and emcee at parties, weddings, funerals, plays, local beauty pageants and other special events.  I seem to have a knack for engaging the audience and entertaining the participants.

I went on to win public speaking awards in college, studied Speech Communications in undergraduate school and then in grad school, I studied Counseling & Social Work at Portland State University.  Eventually, I became a professional speaker and trainer.  I am the author of the book, Sales Manager 101, and was asked to collaborate with Jack Canfield (author of the book, Chicken Soup for the Soul) on another book, “The Masters of Success.” 

I found that non-religious couples often have a difficult time finding someone to officiate at their ceremony.  They’re uncomfortable going to a church they don’t actually attend and the Justice-of-the-Peace option is very impersonal and “judicial” (kinda like going to the DMV).  Many couples were looking for intimate, spiritual alternatives involving someone who’ll be an integral part of their happiest day.

So, in 2001, I jumped through the necessary hoops to become legally authorized to perform marriages.  As well, I reaffirmed my authorization with the State of Oregon by filing an “Affidavit of Authority to Perform Marriages.”  Documentation of my credentials were re-presented to Multnomah County in April 2007 - I am happy to provide a copy, if you like.  Just FYI, I am legal in all 50 states and all counties in Oregon & Washington.

My philosophy about choosing an officiant is basically summed-up in one word, “chemistry.”   Those very intimate, spiritual moments, when the three of us will be telling the story of your love and defining your commitment will be a part of you forever.  It will only be perfect with someone you feel comfortable with.  I hope I am the person with whom you have that connection, but if not please choose someone who feels just right.